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By Mary Houser
When Valerie McGovern’s phone rings, she never knows
who will be on the other end. After working in
Regnum Christi schools for 27 years, she knows more people
than most of us will meet in our lifetime- and
many of them still contact her, especially when they need
advice from a friend they can trust. It is not
unusual for Valerie to receive calls or emails from students
she knew 10, 15, or even 20 years ago. Sometimes
they call just to share some good news, but many
of them call for advice in critical situations because they
know they can trust “Miss Valerie.”
Beginning in 1983 in
her hometown of Dublin, Ireland, Valerie McGovern has worked in
half a dozen Regnum Christi schools in Spain, Mexico, Ireland,
and the United States. Nineteen of those years have been
spent in international boarding academies and it is her students
from “the academies” that call her most often. Why? Because the year
students spend in a boarding academy is an unforgettable and
life-changing experience, and in tough moments, they go back to
it.
The Oak International Academies
The international boarding academies are one of
the best-kept secrets of Regnum Christi apostolates in the United
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| Valerie McGovern with a group of Overbrook students, Regnum Christi coworkers, and consecrated women who work at the academy. | |
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States- and one of the most life-changing. Of the seven
language academies run by Regnum Christi, four are in the
United States: Overbrook Academy for girls in Warwick, RI; Oaklawn
Academy for boys in Edgerton, WI, and Everest Academy boarding
program for boys and girls in Detroit, MI. Overbrook and
Oaklawn both have about 150 students, while Everest Academy’s 2
programs each have about 20 boarders who attend school with
the day students of Everest Academy.
Students usually come to
an academy for one year in order to learn English by
immersion in an English-speaking environment. But this is just a
small part of what they learn, for the academy’s real
goal is the same as that of every Regnum Christi
school: integral formation. All of the academy’s activities are geared
toward this goal: from classes to recreational “clinics” such as
soccer, oil painting, jazz and many more; from monthly virtue
campaigns to etiquette training; from fun weekend outings to daily
mass, and annual trips to Rome and Canada, it all
comes together to help the students grow.
In Valerie’s words,
“The girls’ academy is an environment where we can form
the women of tomorrow’s generation.”
Mother, sister, friend
Within the girls’ academies,
the consecrated women play a pivotal role. As formation instructors
they oversee the formation given to the students. Valerie describes
the role of the consecrated women as “formative and instrumental:
formative, because we are there to form the students; instrumental,
because we are sent by God and he is the
one who works through us.” In other words, “I try
to be a spiritual mother, a sister, a teacher, and
a friend.”
If you ask Valerie what her mission as
a formator boils down to on a day-to-day basis, she
does not list off the dozens of meetings, phone calls,
emails, and paperwork which make up a good part of
her daily schedule. Instead, she sums up her daily tasks
in a few words: “to live for the souls. That’s
what it’s all about.”
Valerie says that one thing she
loves about working in boarding academies is the amount of
time spent with the students. “In the academy we are
able to be with the students many hours of each
day: leading their morning prayers, during mass, at meals, in
free time and on outings… It gives us a chance
to get to know each student very well. Since we
get to know students in many aspects of their lives,
our work to form virtues is much more effective.”
“It’s
one thing to work in a normal school and only
see the students during the school day; it’s another to
work in an academy and see them day and night,
week after week.” For Valerie, “being with the students so
often is a grace, because it gives us a real
chance to experience the transformation that takes place in their
personal lives, as well as in the lives of their
family members, thanks to all the means of formation they’re
offered.”
Humble beginnings
The academies started off very humbly.
Valerie remembers her first year in 1983 back in Dublin-
when the “academy” consisted of two students! She filled the
roles of teacher, formator, administrator, chauffeur, and cook. From those
early foundation days she has seen the academies grow to
well-established institutions with a tradition of excellence.
“From humble beginnings
in Ireland I have seen the academies grow and prosper. I’ve
witnessed the great work God has done and continues to
do through them," she said.
A life-changing experience
With over a hundred
students passing through the academy each year, Valerie has seen
countless transformations, both large and small, take place in students.
When asked what makes the year at the academies so
life-changing, Valerie points to the many means of formation the
students have at their disposal, highlighting several in particular.
“It is
easy for girls who have been raised in a Catholic
environment to say that they love the Church and that
Jesus is their friend. It is quite another thing for
them to be deeply convinced of it.”
Valerie says that
after the annual pilgrimage to Rome, the students come back
full of deep love for the Holy Father and the
Church. “There’s something about being in St. Peter’s Square with
all their Overbrook friends, cheering their hearts out for the
pope, that stays with them.”
“When you ask what their favorite
part of Rome was, they don’t say shopping or sightseeing.
It’s always seeing the Holy Father that they remember the
most. Many of them say that when they heard him
speak, it was like hearing Jesus speak.”
Valerie says that for
her as a consecrated woman, one of the most remarkable
moments of the year is Holy Week. It is a
moment to marvel at the work God does in the
students’ souls. “The students celebrate Holy Week in silence and
prayer, which is a first for most of them. During
those days of Christ’s passion, they come to realize that
he is a true friend who will accompany them always.
It is a deep spiritual experience which stays with them
years later.”
During the year at the academy the students also
grow in their appreciation for the dignity of the human
person. Small groups of students wake up early almost every
Saturday to go pray outside a local abortion clinic.
“For
the girls this is an unforgettable eye-opening experience. It shocks
them to see young women only a little older than
them going to end the life of their children.” On
the way home they discuss what they thought and felt.
“They are so moved that they often declare they will
never consider doing such a thing, should the situation arise.
They always knew abortion was wrong, but coming to such
close contact with it for themselves reinforces their conviction of
the value of life.”
And just as friendship is central in
any teenager’s life, it is also central in an academy.
The friendships they form are true and lasting. Years after
their return home, the students, often from different cities and
even countries, continue keeping in touch.
A life changed
Although the
majority of the students go home changed for the better,
some stories stand out. Valerie tells the story of one
girl several years ago who had not been baptized when
she came to the academy. “Her family was Catholic when she
was born, but decided to let her choose her own
religion later on. By the time she reached her teens,
her parents had fallen away from the faith.”
“When she came
to Overbrook and experienced the beauty of the faith firsthand,
she wanted it for herself. With the full support of
her family, she decided to get baptized.” Within a couple
of weeks she received four sacraments: Baptism, Holy Communion, Confirmation,
and Reconciliation.
“God was the one who worked in her
soul to bring her to himself. But it was wonderful
to think that he used our work at the academy
to bring this soul to know him. That’s what our
lives are about.”
Spending so many years dedicated to such a
hidden apostolate could seem tiring, but Valerie says it has
been worth it. “It would be worth it for only
one soul, but the fact is He has let me
see many, many souls touched by his hand working through
my poor efforts. We are only instruments. It is God who works.”
“Every
morning I renew my consecration to him. My life is
to serve God in whatever way he wants and to
bring many souls to him.” And the academies have given
her a marvelous way to do just that: “to live
for souls.”
Valerie McGovern was one of the first consecrated
women of Regnum Christi from Ireland. She has worked in
Dublin, Madrid, Mexico, and Detroit. She is currently Assistant Directress
of Overbrook Academy in Warwick, RI.