Father José LaBoy, LC
Matthew 19:16-22
A young
man approached Jesus and said, "Teacher, what good must
I do to gain eternal life?" He answered him,
"Why do you ask me about the good? There is
only One who is good. If you wish to
enter into life, keep the commandments." He asked him, "Which
ones?" And Jesus replied, "You shall not kill; you
shall not commit adultery; you shall not steal; you
shall not bear false witness; honor your father and
your mother; and you shall love your neighbor as yourself."
The young man said to him, "All of these
I have observed. What do I still lack?" Jesus
said to him, "If you wish to be perfect, go,
sell what you have and give to the poor,
and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come,
follow me." When the young man heard this statement, he
went away sad, for he had many possessions.
Introductory
Prayer: Dear Lord, I believe in you because
you know what is best for me and what I
must do in order to reach heaven. I hope
in you because you have called me to detach
myself from worldly things in order to possess you. I
love you because you are greater than any of
the things you have created.
Petition: Lord, grant
me spiritual detachment from material things.
1. Are You Sure? Sometimes
we ask for or desire something without really considering
the conditions necessary to obtain it. We understand that
most things cannot be obtained for free; nevertheless, in
the spiritual life we easily forget this. What the rich
young man asks for is the most valuable, the
greatest possible achievement, but he thinks getting it will
be easy. Maybe he was accustomed to being able to
buy whatever he wanted with money. He probably didn’t
even think that Christ might tell him to detach
himself from his possessions. The fact that we could want
something, but not want to do what is necessary
to attain it, should raise a question: Do we
really want it?
2. A First Step to Eternity: Christ takes
the young man’s question seriously. He doesn’t want to
waste the young man’s time allowing him to think
things are easier than they really are. Sadly, in today’s
society people are used to seeking what requires the
least effort. This is not the way of a
true Christian. To get to heaven – and everybody should
really want to – one thing is totally necessary:
“Keep the commandments.” That means to avoid sin. God’s
love for us precedes the commandments. When we love
someone, we do not treat that person in any old
way, but rather in a way that reflects the
love we have for that person. So, we keep the
commandments not just to follow a moral code, but
to show in a specific way our love for God.
This step is very important, but it is only
a first step to heaven.
3. Not So Sure: The rich
young man had no trouble with living the commandments.
Feeling confident, he asks for more, and Christ asks
him to leave his possessions. He wasn’t expecting this. He
went away sad, because he had many possessions. The
problem is not having possessions, but that having many
possessions makes us more preoccupied with material things than
with “things of above,” as St. Paul would say (see
Colossians 3:1). In the Gospel, Jesus says, “Where your
treasure is there will your heart be also” (Matthew
6:21).
Conversation with Christ: Dear Lord, help me to
love you above all things. I realize that I am
attached to things that sometimes lead me to forget
you. And yet, I can’t avoid hearing in the
depths of my soul your words: “You cannot serve two
masters” (Matthew 6:24). Help me understand that it is
not worthwhile to have many things, but not have
you.
Resolution: I will examine myself to see
what commandments I am not living fully and detach myself
from some concrete thing that prevents me from doing
so.