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The following article, written by Colombia University student Dennis Murphy,
was first published on the Covering Sacred Ground web
site.
God on Tap
By Dennis Murphy
In church, at home,
in nature. People find God in all sorts of places,
so there’s no reason why you can’t find Him in
the office or even in a bar.
That is the premise
of a regularly scheduled program called “Theology on Tap,” an
evening of brews, cheap bar food and Catholic solidarity for
Catholic New Yorkers 21-years and older. On a recent Monday
night the group gathered at Connolly’s Pub and Restaurant at
121 W. 35th St. And in between swapping Sunday Mass
homily critiques over a beer and having their formal confessions
heard by two priests, each sitting in windowsills along the
back wall of the Irish pub, patrons were treated to
a theology lesson on the house – a talk on
faith and professional life, courtesy of Fordham Law’s Amy Uelmen.
Unlike
many of Theology on Tap’s previous Catholic commentators, which include
a slew of bishops, monsignors and VIP priests, Uelmen is
not part of a religious order. But this group values
the wisdom of the laity as well. “How does my
life hang together as a person who is a lawyer,
who is a Catholic, who is working in a particular
environment? That’s what’s at stake,” said Uelmen, director of Fordham’s
Institute on Religion, Law & Lawyer’s Work. “For a good
number of people religion offers answers to some really practical
questions about why try to be a good person. Why
try to fight the good fight?”
Though she eventually left the
Manhattan law firm of Arnold & Porter for a teaching
job at Fordham Law, Uelmen says she fought to maintain
her religious identity in the workplace when she was working
as an associate at the firm. Ultimately, she found her
faith to be a legal asset. She said her Catholic
background gave her a sense of integrity and identity –
the security she needed in herself not to care about
what others thought, but to have “tenacity and backbone,” to
take stands and to take risks in her professional life.
When
her firm reveled their win in court for an abortion
rights advocate client of theirs, Uelmen said that it was
her Catholic faith that compelled her to speak up and
vocalize her objections to celebratory mood in the office. She
said that her willingness to take an unpopular stand encouraged
others in her office to speak up and voice their
similar opinions. Oddly enough, her co-workers were more than happy
to hear her out, she said, resulting in a more
open and tolerant working environment.
The expression of one’s own beliefs
and values – be they religious or otherwise – makes
individuals more tolerant and open to discussion, Uelmen suggested in
her talk.
“There’s a lot of room to bring a faith
perspective into professional life. It can be done with respect
and care,” she said. “It’s a path to personal integrity.”
But
for many professionals, that’s easier said than done.
Rosa Rios has
struggled to find balance between her job and her faith.
Working in a corporate setting, Rosa Rios said religion and
work don’t always mix well with co-workers. According to Rios,
she has had to fight her natural inclinations about talking
about God in the workplace and has had to work
hard to keep her religious roots in check.
“It’s little, petty
things, like when the holidays come around. You can’t say
‘Merry Christmas,’” said Rios. “In that type of setting you
always need to be politically correct with what you say.”
The
night’s organizer, Mario Bruschi, was pleased with the turnout of
nearly 100 people. “We’re searching for meaning, something outside of
the daily grind, a sacred place to go,” he said.
“We want a place were we can go to hear
a good spiritual talk.”
With Uelmen reminding the crowd about the
importance carving out time for themselves regardless of the demands
of work and to remember that everyone – from managing
partner to mail clerk – is made in the image
of God, Bruschi said the night’s talk was full of
practical tips for professionals on how to live fuller, non-compartmentalized
lives and how to keep their Christian beliefs alive in
the cutthroat corporate world.
“This is New York City. We have
a lot of business professionals,” said the 34-year-old. “Sometimes you’ve
got to be tough on employees. At the same time
you got to be Catholic-minded, be gentle on people and
follow Jesus Christ.”